Jennifer Lopez Said Her Break Up With Ben Affleck Changed Her (And Comments On Diddy Too)

I wonder why Jennifer Lopez would give such a candid interview about her past relationships? Why tarnish something that is over and that both parties have moved on from? It just doesn't make sense to me.

Jen admitted in her 'Behind The Music' documentary for VH1 that her relationship with Ben Affleck completely changed her.

"I don't think I had ever been heartbroken in that way before - had so many hopes and dreams on something. This was the first time and it was tough. When you go through that kind of heartbreak in front of everybody you are not quite the same person you were before."

Before Ben, the 40-year-old star dated rapper P. Diddy in a two-and-a-half year relationship Jennifer now describes as "ugly" and "sordid". Here comes the messy part:

"He was like, 'I love you'. Right away. It was very fast, but we did have a connection. We did fall in love and we were very close. But my relationship with him was always something I knew would end.
"It started out as something very pure and innocent. But it did get ugly - it did get sordid."

We all know that Jen is now happily married to Marc Anthony and the singer couldn't be happier.

"We make each other better. We reconnected like we had never been apart. It was really the same chemistry and connection we had at the very beginning."

Glad Jen finally found her happiness. What do you think about what she said about her relationship with Diddy? Too much info? Wonder if he will come back with a quote of his own. (imnotobsessed)